Your “prayers not answered” means your “expectations not fulfilled.” The TAO wisdom explains why: your attachments to careers, money, relationships, and success “make” but also “break” you by creating your flawed ego-self that demands your “expectations to be fulfilled.”

Thursday, February 6, 2020

These Words May Be Confusing


Common / Commonplace


Common: shared or used by many; commonplace: ordinary and not very interesting.


e.g. Smoking in an enclosed area is common nuisance.

e.g. To be healthy and wealthy is a common New Year’s resolution.

e.g. Running may be a commonplace sport for many.


Approve / Approve of

Approve 
means pgive consent to; approve of means think well of.

e.g. Your proposal will not be approved by the committee.

e.g. We approve of our daughter’s marriage to that promising young man.


A few / Few

A few: not many with a more positive meaning; few: not many with a more negative meaning.


e.g. A few people might ask for your help (some, not too many).

e.g. We were disappointed that only few people showed up (hardly any).


Defuse / Diffuse

Defuse: decrease the danger, such as deactivate a bomb; diffuse: spread over a wide area.


e.g. It is difficult to defuse the conflicts in the Middle East.

e.g. Once you open the bottle of fragrant herbs, their scents will diffuse.


Read / Peruse
Read: look at and understand; peruse: read thoroughly.

e.g. Don’t just read through the document; you have to peruse it to see if there is any hidden code.


Masterful / Masterly


Masterful
: determined, strong-willed, like a master; masterly means having good skills.

e.g. He has demonstrated that he is a masterful personality.

e.g. This is a masterly piece of performance

Afflict: 
cause someone to suffer; inflict: punish or put a burden on someone.


e.g. For years, he has been afflicted with muscle pain.

e.g. The tyrant had inflicted punishment on those who opposed him.


Farther / Further


Father:  refers to greater distance; further:  with more or greater intensity.


e.g. Our new house is farther from the lake than from the river.

e.g. The demonstration only led to further racial tension. 


Stephen Lau
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